In Child Custody, don’t seek Happy. Seek Progress.

In Child Custody, don’t seek Happy. Seek Progress.

In his book, Zappos.com® founder, Tony Hsieh, wrote that ““[u]ltimately happiness is really just about enjoying life.”

Ultimately, though, Mr. Hsieh ended up endlessly seeking happiness or the next thrill and surrounding himself with yes people who took advantage of his largesse.

Happiness, if it is anywhere at all, is right where you are. Happiness, though, in our opinion, is actually a terrible goal. If you’re not happy now, nothing you get or that changes will make you happy later. “Happy” isn’t realistic much of the time anyways, especially in #ChildCustody and #CoParenting.

Seek progress. Find peace.